Life is much more than success !

truthteller

Many of us would be deeply pained by the suicide of an aspirant in ORN.

I request aspirants to not attach their sentiments with success to such an extent.

Many of us would fail to qualify Prelims, Mains or get a place in final list. But that should not demotivate us to such an extent.

Success is overrated.

Lets define our precious lives in a better way and not identify it with success.

Even without success, we have lots of factors to remain happy, or at least not remain in despair.

Jack_Shukla

Sad to hear that.

ramon

but the mainstream culture says otherwise. Labels you a LOSER. .

truthteller

but the mainstream culture says otherwise. Labels you a LOSER. .

we shdn't be concerned abt mainstream as we cannot alter their notions...but parents/family must become wise enough to not put burden on their wards..

notdefeatedyet

but the mainstream culture says otherwise. Labels you a LOSER. .

we shdn't be concerned abt mainstream as we cannot alter their notions...but parents/family must become wise enough to not put burden on their wards..

And what one must do if parents/family are the ones who put pressure...
who look at you as a loser,,disgrace to the family ?

truthteller

but the mainstream culture says otherwise. Labels you a LOSER. .

we shdn't be concerned abt mainstream as we cannot alter their notions...but parents/family must become wise enough to not put burden on their wards..

And what one must do if parents/family are the ones who put pressure...
who look at you as a loser,,disgrace to the family ?

i have done dat...u need courage to do dat...bas ek baar face karna padta hai...we need to break that barrier..i have broken that...now m free..no expectations from me..no burden on me...

notdefeatedyet

but the mainstream culture says otherwise. Labels you a LOSER. .

we shdn't be concerned abt mainstream as we cannot alter their notions...but parents/family must become wise enough to not put burden on their wards..

And what one must do if parents/family are the ones who put pressure...
who look at you as a loser,,disgrace to the family ?

i have done dat...u need courage to do dat...bas ek baar face karna padta hai...we need to break that barrier..i have broken that...now m free..no expectations from me..no burden on me...

Well, good to know that.

dpagarwal

Just reber two things.
1. For achieving something you have to take pragamatic risks in life.
2. For being successful do not hope anything . Just keep moving in the right direction.

Robert_putnam

Bhai log age is just number ...
Believe in that sif ladki ptane k lie nahi .. Dunia k har kaam k lye...
Abdul Kalam ji ne apne driver ko professor bna dia tha....:) Motivation se.
Hum serious aspirants to khud b motivate ho skte h..
N marne k khayal se phle .... Apne maa baap Bhai behn k bare me Soch lo....us khayal ki lg jaegi 4 sure...

NEVER GIVE UP.

Robert_putnam

but the mainstream culture says otherwise. Labels you a LOSER. .

we shdn't be concerned abt mainstream as we cannot alter their notions...but parents/family must become wise enough to not put burden on their wards..

And what one must do if parents/family are the ones who put pressure...
who look at you as a loser,,disgrace to the family ?

Bhai if it is so then believe me you have to prove them ... N upsc is not only way.... And suicide is definitely not an option

Jack_Shukla

Just reber two things.
1. For achieving something you have to take pragamatic risks in life.
2. For being successful do not hope anything . Just keep moving in the right direction.

Define pragmatic risks please.